Falling in love with winter

I have a lot of friends who really suffer from SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder).

I'm a little different. I'm pretty sure that I have SAD - but in reverse.

I recently watched this video with Sali Hughes and Marian Keyes (don't you just love these two ladies?) and may have squealed when I saw this:

So I thought that if anyone can advise on how to fall in love with winter, that I might just be able to qualify here.

These are my top tips for embracing this beautiful cold!

1) Forget dieting. Please, just forget it. Especially in these cold months. By all means eat healthily, but I believe that these are the months to nourish ourselves with hearty soups and stews that warm ourselves from the inside out. Embrace roast dinners and venture to your local for a good pub lunch in front of a roaring fire.

If you do put on a few pounds, then just think that at least it's extra insulation from the cold. That's my mindset, and I'm sticking to it.

2) Honour the winter. By honouring the winter, I mean understanding that nature is giving us this time to sleep more, to rest more and, quite possibly, to think more.

One of the reasons that I love winter is that it's a brilliant excuse to stay in, plan for the coming year, read all the books that have been on my wishlist for God knows how long, and to get the rest I need before spring.

I do more yoga, roast my favourite vegetables, I bake and I find myself spending more time turning inward and really looking at what I want from this new shiny year ahead of me.

3) Love your layers. A few years ago I realised that I had more summer clothes than winter ones. Which is ridiculous seeing as in the UK we experience maybe 2, possibly 3, months of good sunny weather.

I've gradually started to invest in more appropriate winter clothing. Invest in warm clothing that feels good against your skin and feels like a giant hug. You won't regret it.

4) Light. Many of my friends who suffer from SAD use an SAD lamp to help reduce the production of melanin (this round-up of SAD lamps is a good one).

I personally love the ritual of lighting candles or burning oils in winter (orange is a favourite of mine). When the days turn dark, we go around the flat lighting our candles and let the twinkling lights bring a bit of magic to the darkness.

5) Venture outside! Just because the days are shorter doesn't mean that you have to stay inside. Wrap yourself up in as many wool and cashmere layers as you can fit under your winter coat and get exploring.

A few suggestions for those of you living in/close to London include the Astronomy Photographer of the Year exhibit (running until 22 Feb) at the Royal Observatory in Greenwich (because of photos like these. I mean, wow), and the exhibition by David Birkin (running until 28 Feb) - an artist whose work looks at "not only the failure of images, but also the failure of truth and the manipulation of legislative language to suit political expediency". Both exhibits are free and look amazing.

Do you have any other tips that you'd recommend?

(Images via Woman and Home & Garance Dore)